I chuckled to myself all the way thru this story....I have been a 'student' of American-Russian relationships for about 12 years....have been to Skt. Peterburg.....and have every intention of marrying a Russian woman--all for the above reasons...this article is absolutely accurate.... Peace Lonnie Nashville, Tennessee USA
Why are you promoting for Russian girls to the westerns!!? Whats the point of this article?! I dont get it! If they' re that good, that perfect then why dont Russian men merry Russian women?!! Don't you realize you are assisting in the ending of the Russian race!!!!!! the Russian population is already declining & by promoting Russian women to westerns you are not helping to fix this problem... If Russian women are willing to merry & cherish poor foreign men, then why dont they do the same to Russian men?!! Selling out Russian girls to westerns is shameful.
i am possible wanting to look at the russian built cars and possible import the to usa for business and would love to find a beutiful russian girl for true love and marriage i am 59 years old and i would be kind loving and take very good care of the special girl
I met my Russian girlfriend in January through a Russian dating site. Immediately I felt she was extremely sincere and there was mutual attraction right away. We met in Turkey in the spring, and most everything described in the article about behavior and expectations was true. She is most beautiful and graceful, yet natural and in many regards simple and not materialistic compared to American women). She is an engineer and she is very smart. What a killer package!!! It was the best and most frustrating experience of my life. She is beautiful and natural, she is not obsessed nor embarrassed by her beauty and during my time with her, I had the absolute most wonderful experiences of my life. However, her perfectionism (which attracted me to her in the first place) caused many unpleasant episodes, because, it turns out, I am just a regular, loving and caring GUY, not a white Knight. I do not read mind and like most guys, I am very bad when it comes to understanding female desires and expectations, mostly when they appear self contradictory.
Particularly dealing with food was a very very unexpected and the most significant problem for me. She was very peculiar about what to eat and the safety of food. She would not eat anything because she felt the food was not handled properly in a sanitary way, so for 3 days we snacked out of food she brought (excellent dry sausage, kasha and tea) and some nuts and dry fruits we bought locally. After that, we ate at the local (Turkish) McDonald and I took take out a few more times. In 10 days, we never ate in a restaurant. Interestingly, her daughter had warned me: "Do not let a Russian woman go hungry!!!"
As far as I am concerned, I do not know what the future holds, but I know I have been smitten by a Russian woman and I cannot get past that. This experience was actually completely life-changing and unforgettable.
hi every one i have met a lovely russian lady we have been talking now for about three months and i can't amagine life with out her she wants to come to the uk for a holiday and stay with me but we dont no what visa she should apply for if we get on like we do through the mail who no s were we will be in twelve months time but i do like all the letters posted here they have given me more insight into russian women
I am an American who met his Russian wife 9 years ago. We have 5 children together and our love is as strong as even. Most of her Russian friends who came here to marry an American are divorced. If you are willing to love completely, and give up control to a woman who could be 30 years your junior, then you can have an incredibly happy marriage. But, if you are jealous and controlling, she will be gone as soon as she has a permanent green card. As a testament to Russian women, even the American men who are divorced from them, want to go back and find another Russian wife. They truly are superior to most American women, when it comes to love, family and marriage.
I would just like to say that I am an English guy, who came to Russia and lived for 3.5 years in the beautiful city of St Petersburg. I don't live there now. My heart was so badly broken by a girl who really believed that she loved me (I thought that the sun shone from her fingertips) but who left me anyway to follow her need for security of a material kind. I was not earning so much money while in Russia as I do today. But I have been left with a sour taste which is so hard to shake off. I truly believe that Russian women are the most beautiful in the world, but can barely think of them anymore, after my experience. I was left wondering whether the romantic Russian nature (make no mistake, behind their apparent cool confidence, lies an almost Mediterranean passion and sentimentality, although mixed with other forces at work too) is what it seems - for me, true love has nothing to do with money, but I saw so many examples (apart from my own experience) of where a richer man arrived on the scene and the Russian girl would suddenly announce that she was in love again with someone else and that she had to leave you, even though she clearly wasn't in love and merely attracted to the safety and options which money seems to provide. How do I know this? Because it was confessed to me by the girls in question. The Russian woman's definition of 'strong man', in my view, is more practical than romantic. I wish one kind Russian lady would help me to change my mind about this, because (if it hadn't been for my bad experience) I would tell you that (in terms of the overall impression I was left with) Russia is the best place I've ever lived.
I have been exchanging emails with a 27 year Russia lady now for exaaclty 1 month, and I tell you it feels like I I have known her for years. I have never opened up to any stranger about my secrets and fears and hope and my dream and aspirations like I have to her!! This is so strange. I thought womwne like this are extinct long time ago.
There are truly many ladies thru FSU who have survived test time and are outstanding humans, I believe it is sad so many will never find their love..... I met Moscow girl living Ukraine and she is so culturally good perfect partner for man I take my hat off to so many moulded into such perfect good...an example western women
For sentimentally sterilized westerners, a Russian woman is a mixture of dream and drama. For Greeks a guarranteed vaccine (swine flu wording, sorry..) to save our next generation from becoming sentimentally sterlized westerners.
@J. Nunez, 4 Sept You should go to see her. She will have difficulty getting a visa to visit you if you have never met in person. You may want to meet on "neutral territory" i.e. a big city where there are also interesting things to see and do if things don't work out with the girl. It might be good to have a Plan B, in case things don't work out. Don't start planning marriage before your first date.
Im very tired of the materialistic self centred western women. Recently I was simply standing at a bar and asked a girl if she would like a drink. She turned round to me and said F Off!. Ok, Im certainly not claiming all western women are like that, but the majority have such a low respect for men. The feminist movement in the west has so warped the issue of men and women their influence is everywhere and sadly western women buy in to it. Its constantly adversarial, they are programmed to dislike men, reject family and having kids. Is it any wonder the Europeans are a dying race. But this is exactly what the feminists want and by all accounts they are succeeding. The ironoic thing is I adore women, its just that here I never get a chance to show it.
What a beautiful article by author! :) Indeed, a lot of russian girls and women look like a tender and unprotected flower... and this flower can't reveals for everybody, but only for certain person... And it's our special russian upbringing, our customs and morals... And author is absolutely right, when he said about Tatyana from Pushkin’s classic poem, “Evgeny Onegin”))),who "has a list of qualities typical of the “pure” Russian woman, the way she was meant to be" [quotation]. Yes, of course, Tatyana is romantic, vulnerable, sincere woman... and all of these traits makes her indeed womanly)). But - of course, it's quite reasonable and logical, - Tatyana dreams about Evgeny Onegin, extraordinary person...)
So, such Tatyana - it's image of russian girls and women ... Evgeny Onegin - it's Byron for Tatyana and "byron", "foreign byron" for many russian girls!! Yes,yes, it's indeed!!))) I know it very good ;)))))))) too good))))
P.S. It was very pleasant to read previous comments for me! :) Almoust all of you describes your beautiful story of life and your love! It's indeed "gold words"! Thank you, dear foreigners, for such good attention to russian girls! :)
Go for it! trust your instincts,its the only way to go and meet her and her family....trust me I did and it worked beyond my wildest expectations:-) contact me at duncanh@postnet.co.za and I will guide you through it:-)
From my own experience, meeting a girl from Eastern Europe is the answer for lonely Western men. I myself had a few unlucky experiences with women in my own country and was in despair that I would ever meet the love of my life. I heard from a friend about meeting Eastern European women via the internet and became interested... After a few months I met my love and after 18 months of correspondence I traveled to Moscow to meet her, was I blown of my feet, I can tell you:-) just imagine spending 4 hours in a bus kissing like a sixteen year old!! I stayed with her aunt in a small village in the Russian country side and truly experienced the Russian way of life, my love for her grew more and more every day and leaving her to come back home was not easy. About 8 months later I was able to arrange for her to come visit me in South Africa and even though my financial situation was not good we had much fun, she amazed me with her ability to accept whatever she had to, she only wanted to share everything with me! She has now gone back home but will join me in December to spend the rest of her life with me, we love each other beyond our wildest dreams. So believe guys it's possible, but take your time to find the right one... You will know after the first letter who she is, ok maybe I was lucky so you will need to read the 5th letter:-) just get the drift: 1) Choose the marriage material not the beauty queens 2) Be sure of what you are looking for. 3) Going to her country is important to know where she comes from. (meet her family) 4) Don't try to impress her with money. 5) Find out about Russian culture ( its not so different, just unique) 6) Take your time to get to know her, be honest about yourself, she will sense your truth whatever it is.
Well I hope this will help, good luck, remember - a willing heart will always find what it is looking for, you deserve what you want, trust your instincts, they wont fail you:-)
I am sharing emails with a beautiful girl from Russia, we been doing it for a month everything is great, but i am not sure what to do, if go there to meet her or help her to come here, she has not ask for money or help, i guess what i afraid is of the scam. I think i will go there even if is not true she has made feel like never before and i think she worth the risk.
As a middle aged Briton who moved to Russia to study the great Russian classical music masters, I met my wife here, and we've been married 5 years next month. While it's fair to say there are predators in Russia, the same can be said for any country, and based on my extensive travels, i'd say Russia has no more or less of these. I think it's a myth that a higher percentage of scammers are Russian women, and this is really about foreigner expectations that they want a "babe" on their arm in order to prove their manhood. Frankly, if a man marries a woman for her beauty with no thought to the future, then he deserves what he gets. And it's arrogant to assume that a man who desires such women is somehow more morally upright, just because he's a man, or worse, a foreign man. I've met more than one russian lady who when asked what she thought of foreign men chasing "babes" replied, "They deserve what they get, and never get what they desire, and can't have." The "meat" by internet business is just that, business. It's foolish to expect that everyone in a dating site will be genuine, and this applies not just to sites for Russian women, but those of other nationalities as well. Well, i'm not going to perpetuate the myth. I'll probably live in Russia for the rest of my days (if they'll have me), because the people are "complete." It's still a strong part of the Russian psyche to have a good home, and life with a partner based on respect, affection, intelligence, love, integrity, and a determination to have a happy life together. My wife is a beautiful, outstanding woman, highly intelligent, and possessed of a great sense of humor. She is fiercely protective of our family, and i have no doubt, like me, she would defend it with her life if necessary. Men who assume Russian women are "easy", or "desperate", deserve to get ripped off, for the fallacy of their own expectations. Russian ladies expect their man to be strong, wise, kind, and loyal.
November 20, 2009, 05:38
I chuckled to myself all the way thru this story....I have been a 'student' of American-Russian relationships for about 12 years....have been to Skt. Peterburg.....and have every intention of marrying a Russian woman--all for the above reasons...this article is absolutely accurate....
Peace
Lonnie Nashville, Tennessee USA
November 10, 2009, 12:13
Why are you promoting for Russian girls to the westerns!!? Whats the point of this article?!
I dont get it! If they' re that good, that perfect then why dont Russian men merry Russian women?!!
Don't you realize you are assisting in the ending of the Russian race!!!!!! the Russian population is already declining & by promoting Russian women to westerns you are not helping to fix this problem...
If Russian women are willing to merry & cherish poor foreign men, then why dont they do the same to Russian men?!!
Selling out Russian girls to westerns is shameful.
November 09, 2009, 05:11
i am possible wanting to look at the russian built cars and possible import the to usa for business and would love to find a beutiful russian girl for true love and marriage i am 59 years old and i would be kind loving and take very good care of the special girl
November 07, 2009, 16:20
I met my Russian girlfriend in January through a Russian dating site. Immediately I felt she was extremely sincere and there was mutual attraction right away. We met in Turkey in the spring, and most everything described in the article about behavior and expectations was true. She is most beautiful and graceful, yet natural and in many regards simple and not materialistic compared to American women). She is an engineer and she is very smart. What a killer package!!! It was the best and most frustrating experience of my life. She is beautiful and natural, she is not obsessed nor embarrassed by her beauty and during my time with her, I had the absolute most wonderful experiences of my life. However, her perfectionism (which attracted me to her in the first place) caused many unpleasant episodes, because, it turns out, I am just a regular, loving and caring GUY, not a white Knight. I do not read mind and like most guys, I am very bad when it comes to understanding female desires and expectations, mostly when they appear self contradictory.
Particularly dealing with food was a very very unexpected and the most significant problem for me. She was very peculiar about what to eat and the safety of food. She would not eat anything because she felt the food was not handled properly in a sanitary way, so for 3 days we snacked out of food she brought (excellent dry sausage, kasha and tea) and some nuts and dry fruits we bought locally. After that, we ate at the local (Turkish) McDonald and I took take out a few more times. In 10 days, we never ate in a restaurant. Interestingly, her daughter had warned me: "Do not let a Russian woman go hungry!!!"
As far as I am concerned, I do not know what the future holds, but I know I have been smitten by a Russian woman and I cannot get past that. This experience was actually completely life-changing and unforgettable.
November 06, 2009, 18:32
hi every one i have met a lovely russian lady we have been talking now for about three months and i can't amagine life with out her she wants to come to the uk for a holiday and stay with me but we dont no what visa she should apply for if we get on like we do through the mail who no s were we will be in twelve months time but i do like all the letters posted here they have given me more insight into russian women
October 25, 2009, 03:00
I am an American who met his Russian wife 9 years ago. We have 5 children together and our love is as strong as even. Most of her Russian friends who came here to marry an American are divorced. If you are willing to love completely, and give up control to a woman who could be 30 years your junior, then you can have an incredibly happy marriage. But, if you are jealous and controlling, she will be gone as soon as she has a permanent green card. As a testament to Russian women, even the American men who are divorced from them, want to go back and find another Russian wife. They truly are superior to most American women, when it comes to love, family and marriage.
October 23, 2009, 00:58
I would just like to say that I am an English guy, who came to Russia and lived for 3.5 years in the beautiful city of St Petersburg. I don't live there now. My heart was so badly broken by a girl who really believed that she loved me (I thought that the sun shone from her fingertips) but who left me anyway to follow her need for security of a material kind. I was not earning so much money while in Russia as I do today. But I have been left with a sour taste which is so hard to shake off. I truly believe that Russian women are the most beautiful in the world, but can barely think of them anymore, after my experience. I was left wondering whether the romantic Russian nature (make no mistake, behind their apparent cool confidence, lies an almost Mediterranean passion and sentimentality, although mixed with other forces at work too) is what it seems - for me, true love has nothing to do with money, but I saw so many examples (apart from my own experience) of where a richer man arrived on the scene and the Russian girl would suddenly announce that she was in love again with someone else and that she had to leave you, even though she clearly wasn't in love and merely attracted to the safety and options which money seems to provide. How do I know this? Because it was confessed to me by the girls in question. The Russian woman's definition of 'strong man', in my view, is more practical than romantic. I wish one kind Russian lady would help me to change my mind about this, because (if it hadn't been for my bad experience) I would tell you that (in terms of the overall impression I was left with) Russia is the best place I've ever lived.
October 12, 2009, 23:50
I have been exchanging emails with a 27 year Russia lady now for exaaclty 1 month, and I tell you it feels like I I have known her for years. I have never opened up to any stranger about my secrets and fears and hope and my dream and aspirations like I have to her!! This is so strange. I thought womwne like this are extinct long time ago.
October 10, 2009, 09:47
There are truly many ladies thru FSU who have survived test time and are outstanding humans,
I believe it is sad so many will never find their love.....
I met Moscow girl living Ukraine and she is so culturally good perfect partner for man
I take my hat off to so many moulded into such perfect good...an example western women
October 02, 2009, 19:35
Russian women are really very cute. I am impressed by the culture. They are really broad minded. I wish to be in Russia.
September 20, 2009, 02:35
There's a very real reason for the gigantic consumption of vodka in Russia,
and it has to do with the egos and incompatibility of the sexes.
Russia isn't the only place one will find this incompatibility of the sexes.
September 19, 2009, 10:15
For sentimentally sterilized westerners, a Russian woman is a mixture of dream and drama.
For Greeks a guarranteed vaccine (swine flu wording, sorry..) to save our next generation from becoming sentimentally sterlized westerners.
September 19, 2009, 01:08
I liked the reply by the girl at the end. That sounds very honest and natural. I say more power to her and her breed.
September 17, 2009, 13:52
@J. Nunez, 4 Sept
You should go to see her. She will have difficulty getting a visa to visit you if you have never met in person. You may want to meet on "neutral territory" i.e. a big city where there are also interesting things to see and do if things don't work out with the girl.
It might be good to have a Plan B, in case things don't work out. Don't start planning marriage before your first date.
September 13, 2009, 22:38
Im very tired of the materialistic self centred western women. Recently I was simply standing at a bar and asked a girl if she would like a drink. She turned round to me and said F Off!. Ok, Im certainly not claiming all western women are like that, but the majority have such a low respect for men. The feminist movement in the west has so warped the issue of men and women their influence is everywhere and sadly western women buy in to it. Its constantly adversarial, they are programmed to dislike men, reject family and having kids. Is it any wonder the Europeans are a dying race. But this is exactly what the feminists want and by all accounts they are succeeding. The ironoic thing is I adore women, its just that here I never get a chance to show it.
September 09, 2009, 23:31
What a beautiful article by author! :)
Indeed, a lot of russian girls and women look like a tender and unprotected flower... and this flower can't reveals for everybody, but only for certain person... And it's our special russian upbringing, our customs and morals... And author is absolutely right, when he said about Tatyana from Pushkin’s classic poem, “Evgeny Onegin”))),who "has a list of qualities typical of the “pure” Russian woman, the way she was meant to be" [quotation]. Yes, of course, Tatyana is romantic, vulnerable, sincere woman... and all of these traits makes her indeed womanly)). But - of course, it's quite reasonable and logical, - Tatyana dreams about Evgeny Onegin, extraordinary person...)
So, such Tatyana - it's image of russian girls and women ... Evgeny Onegin - it's Byron for Tatyana and "byron", "foreign byron" for many russian girls!! Yes,yes, it's indeed!!))) I know it very good ;)))))))) too good))))
P.S. It was very pleasant to read previous comments for me! :) Almoust all of you describes your beautiful story of life and your love! It's indeed "gold words"! Thank you, dear foreigners, for such good attention to russian girls! :)
September 06, 2009, 21:47
Go for it! trust your instincts,its the only way to go and meet her and her family....trust me I did and it worked beyond my wildest expectations:-) contact me at duncanh@postnet.co.za and I will guide you through it:-)
September 06, 2009, 21:42
From my own experience, meeting a girl from Eastern Europe is the answer for lonely Western men. I myself had a few unlucky experiences with women in my own country and was in despair that I would ever meet the love of my life. I heard from a friend about meeting Eastern European women via the internet and became interested... After a few months I met my love and after 18 months of correspondence I traveled to Moscow to meet her, was I blown of my feet, I can tell you:-) just imagine spending 4 hours in a bus kissing like a sixteen year old!! I stayed with her aunt in a small village in the Russian country side and truly experienced the Russian way of life, my love for her grew more and more every day and leaving her to come back home was not easy. About 8 months later I was able to arrange for her to come visit me in South Africa and even though my financial situation was not good we had much fun, she amazed me with her ability to accept whatever she had to, she only wanted to share everything with me! She has now gone back home but will join me in December to spend the rest of her life with me, we love each other beyond our wildest dreams. So believe guys it's possible, but take your time to find the right one... You will know after the first letter who she is, ok maybe I was lucky so you will need to read the 5th letter:-) just get the drift:
1) Choose the marriage material not the beauty queens
2) Be sure of what you are looking for.
3) Going to her country is important to know where she comes from. (meet her family)
4) Don't try to impress her with money.
5) Find out about Russian culture ( its not so different, just unique)
6) Take your time to get to know her, be honest about yourself, she will sense your truth whatever it is.
Well I hope this will help, good luck, remember - a willing heart will always find what it is looking for, you deserve what you want, trust your instincts, they wont fail you:-)
September 04, 2009, 02:33
I am sharing emails with a beautiful girl from Russia, we been doing it for a month everything is great, but i am not sure what to do, if go there to meet her or help her to come here, she has not ask for money or help, i guess what i afraid is of the scam.
I think i will go there even if is not true she has made feel like never before and i think she worth the risk.
August 30, 2009, 09:55
As a middle aged Briton who moved to Russia to study the great Russian classical music masters, I met my wife here, and we've been married 5 years next month. While it's fair to say there are predators in Russia, the same can be said for any country, and based on my extensive travels, i'd say Russia has no more or less of these. I think it's a myth that a higher percentage of scammers are Russian women, and this is really about foreigner expectations that they want a "babe" on their arm in order to prove their manhood. Frankly, if a man marries a woman for her beauty with no thought to the future, then he deserves what he gets. And it's arrogant to assume that a man who desires such women is somehow more morally upright, just because he's a man, or worse, a foreign man. I've met more than one russian lady who when asked what she thought of foreign men chasing "babes" replied, "They deserve what they get, and never get what they desire, and can't have." The "meat" by internet business is just that, business. It's foolish to expect that everyone in a dating site will be genuine, and this applies not just to sites for Russian women, but those of other nationalities as well.
Well, i'm not going to perpetuate the myth.
I'll probably live in Russia for the rest of my days (if they'll have me), because the people are "complete." It's still a strong part of the Russian psyche to have a good home, and life with a partner based on respect, affection, intelligence, love, integrity, and a determination to have a happy life together. My wife is a beautiful, outstanding woman, highly intelligent, and possessed of a great sense of humor. She is fiercely protective of our family, and i have no doubt, like me, she would defend it with her life if necessary.
Men who assume Russian women are "easy", or "desperate", deserve to get ripped off, for the fallacy of their own expectations.
Russian ladies expect their man to be strong, wise, kind, and loyal.
Are you man enough?
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